The Truth About Santa: Talking to Your Kids about the Real Magic of Santa Claus

As your kiddos get older, they might start asking questions about Santa. It can be hard to know just what to say. Reading this letter might help make a tough conversation a little easier. 

I want to tell you something very special, something that kids only learn when they’re grown-up enough, kind enough, and ready for a big responsibility. And I know you are ready.

You’ve been wondering about Santa. Who he is, how he does what he does, and whether he’s real.

St. Nicholas, was a real man who lived almost 2000 years ago. He was known for being kind and generous, especially to children and people in need. There are many stories about him secretly giving gifts, and helping the poor. Over many centuries, those stories grew into the Santa we know today. He is known by many names: Kris Kringle, Papa Noel, or Sinterklaas.

You see, Santa isn’t just one person. Santa is many people who love to make Christmas feel joyful for others. When you were little, the grown-ups in your life played Santa for you, choosing surprises, hiding them, and making the holiday feel magical. They did this because they love you.

Grown-ups and big kids help keep that magic alive. And now… it’s your turn. And now that you’re older, you get to become Santa for the younger kids who still believe in the magic. You get to help with secrets, surprises, and kindness. You get to watch their eyes light up, knowing you helped create that feeling.

So yes, Santa is real. He just doesn’t always look like you expect. Sometimes he looks like parents. Sometimes like grandparents. And now, sometimes… he looks like you.

Welcome to the team, Santa.

Christmas just got a whole lot more magical.